Dirty Talking Questions

Many of us tend to feel very strange when our men want is to talk dirty to them. This discomfort can be during the act of lovemaking or even before or after. It is notuncommon to feel this way and in fact, it is very commonplace. Some of us even curselike sailors but feel uncomfortable when it comes to speaking sexually. You may bewondering why you feel this way and how to conquer this feeling of awkwardness. Hereare a couple of common reasons and what you can do to conquer these reasons andbecome his very own personal “Girl 6″ when it comes to dirty talk.






The Good Girl Complex
No girl wants to be looked at as being anything but a good girl. Some of us feel thatif we talk this way and make dirty talk it will sully our reputation. This is not true.Remember that this is just a part of intimacy with your partner. Intimacy is not alwaysphysical and it can happen in or out of the bedroom. Are you ashamed when yourhusband or boyfriend holds your hand or kisses you in public? These are things thatmake us feel close to him and a little dirty talk is just another way to get close to him.This is your chance to tell him exactly what you want him to do and how you like it.There is nothing wrong with that!

Fear of Saying the Wrong Thing
Some of us are afraid of learning how to dirty talk for the fear of saying the wrongthing. Can you imagine being in the heat of passion, hot and heavy, then you sayingsomething that brings it all to a screeching stop? This is like an urban legend of thebedroom. Many of us have heard stories of something like this happening but the factis that this is very unlikely. If you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, the remedy isvery simple. Take queues from your partner. Men that like dirty talk will engage in thesame. So listen to the things that he says to you. if he asks you what you like or whatyou want him to do, tell him. Then ask him the same thing. Ask him how he wants it.If all else fails, ask him what he likes to hear. There is no shame in asking for a littledirection.

He Will Think I am a Nasty Girl
 Many of us shy from the dirty talk because we are afraid that it will change our man’sopinion of us. We hear the dirty talk in the movies but we also hear him say that hisloves his good girl. You talking dirty to him is the best of both worlds. Yes, he may getexcited when he hears dirty talk from the girls in the movies but it does not mean thathe wants to date a porn star. You talking dirty to him is showing him that you are doingsomething special just for him and that you are talking this way just for him. There isnothing more attractive than getting that star treatment.